Comments for CoupleDoingIt.com http://coupledoingit.com Advice from your friendly neighborhood swingers! Sun, 06 Nov 2011 21:07:52 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 Comment on Swinging and Penis Size? by Bob http://coupledoingit.com/2011/02/21/swinging-and-penis-size/#comment-439 Bob Sun, 06 Nov 2011 21:07:52 +0000 http://coupledoingit.com/?p=209#comment-439 I am also "average" at 6". Also have noticed that this is definitely small at the nude swing resorts and have read that the reason is, simply, the guys with big ones have the cockfidence to go there and show off while we average guys are perceived as tiny by the women who only see men in these situations. It must be said, the main reason many men base their perception of sexual competence on their penis size is insecurity. But what is their insecurity based on? What women say and how they react. How they talk to each other, and to men during foreplay, and in evaluating the experience after. Having had a lot of experience at these places, and swing clubs, I can tell you, the first thing out of almost any woman's mouth when the touching starts is a comment on size. If men evaluated pussies in everything from real situations to popular media, the most common heard expression in America today would no longer be "Size Matters" or "Bigger IS Better" but "Squeeze Matters" and "Tighter is Better". What if men always asked, on dating sites, about pussy stats? What if women were reduced to whether they had a small enough pussy to make sex feel good to a man, instead of whether he was big enough to "fill me up?" I never fail to satisfy a woman whose pussy is the right size for me. Too bad we average men can't see that from across the swimming pool and pre-judge women as they do us. I am also “average” at 6″. Also have noticed that this is definitely small at the nude swing resorts and have read that the reason is, simply, the guys with big ones have the cockfidence to go there and show off while we average guys are perceived as tiny by the women who only see men in these situations. It must be said, the main reason many men base their perception of sexual competence on their penis size is insecurity. But what is their insecurity based on? What women say and how they react. How they talk to each other, and to men during foreplay, and in evaluating the experience after. Having had a lot of experience at these places, and swing clubs, I can tell you, the first thing out of almost any woman’s mouth when the touching starts is a comment on size. If men evaluated pussies in everything from real situations to popular media, the most common heard expression in America today would no longer be “Size Matters” or “Bigger IS Better” but “Squeeze Matters” and “Tighter is Better”. What if men always asked, on dating sites, about pussy stats? What if women were reduced to whether they had a small enough pussy to make sex feel good to a man, instead of whether he was big enough to “fill me up?” I never fail to satisfy a woman whose pussy is the right size for me. Too bad we average men can’t see that from across the swimming pool and pre-judge women as they do us.

]]> Comment on Swingle and Dating by Roxie http://coupledoingit.com/2010/12/21/swingle-and-dating/#comment-295 Roxie Fri, 29 Jul 2011 23:56:11 +0000 http://coupledoingit.com/?p=192#comment-295 Its been my exprience that most men will tell me they are interested in the Lifestyle, or have heard "things" about it and would like to learn more and possily do it. They will tell me they are turned on by the thought of it. But I found out tkhe hard way that deep down they are repulsed by the LS, and in time with me. Good ridance I say! You can usually tell pretty quickly if a man is in the LS or not. All I can say is good luck to you in your search, I haven't given up hope yet! Roxie....;o)~ Its been my exprience that most men will tell me they are interested in the Lifestyle, or have heard “things” about it and would like to learn more and possily do it. They will tell me they are turned on by the thought of it. But I found out tkhe hard way that deep down they are repulsed by the LS, and in time with me. Good ridance I say! You can usually tell pretty quickly if a man is in the LS or not.

All I can say is good luck to you in your search, I haven’t given up hope yet!

Roxie….;o)~

]]> Comment on Contact us by Marc and Niqi http://coupledoingit.com/contact-us/#comment-294 Marc and Niqi Fri, 29 Jul 2011 22:42:09 +0000 http://coupledoingit.com/wordpress/?page_id=28#comment-294 Well done! I love your quirky video, your EXCELLENT FAQs and articles, your gentle humour and that the info you give all seems to be spot on with our own experience in the lifestyle. We've recently started hosting parties in our area where the communities are spread out and there's never been a club, so it's full of nervous newbies LOL We just recently completed the FAQ to our web site and are happy to include a link to your site in there. Thank you for the great job on your web site. We will definitely highly recommend it to others! Thanks! Marc (and Niqi) www.eventsbyresonance.com Well done! I love your quirky video, your EXCELLENT FAQs and articles, your gentle humour and that the info you give all seems to be spot on with our own experience in the lifestyle.

We’ve recently started hosting parties in our area where the communities are spread out and there’s never been a club, so it’s full of nervous newbies LOL We just recently completed the FAQ to our web site and are happy to include a link to your site in there.

Thank you for the great job on your web site. We will definitely highly recommend it to others!

Thanks!
Marc (and Niqi)
http://www.eventsbyresonance.com

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]]> Comment on STD Fears in the Swinging Lifestyle by CoupleDoingIt http://coupledoingit.com/2010/12/18/std-fears-in-the-swinging-lifestyle/#comment-26 CoupleDoingIt Thu, 13 Jan 2011 23:44:49 +0000 http://coupledoingit.com/?p=182#comment-26 We've never used, nor have we met anyone who used dental dams, inside or outside of the swinging lifestyle. Is it safer to perform cunnilingus with a dental dam? Of course. You also have less risk of getting a sunburn if you wear a sweater to the beach, but you're probably not going to enjoy yourself very much. I'm not telling you <em>not</em> to use a dental dam if you want to. I'm just saying that there seems to be a general consensus among both the swinging and vanilla population that they are not worth it. The same seems to be true of blow jobs with condoms. Basically, just make smart choices and informed decisions when it comes to your sexual activities. Don't be afraid to ask people when they were last tested. If they get offended by that question, then you might think twice about playing with them. Since most STDs require an open wound to be spread, I know many swingers (including myself) who will not floss their teeth or shave their privates within 12 hours before engaging in any sexual activities with others in order to minimize the risk of any microscopic cuts inside their mouths or near their genitals. That's a smart practice. -CoupleDoingIt We’ve never used, nor have we met anyone who used dental dams, inside or outside of the swinging lifestyle. Is it safer to perform cunnilingus with a dental dam? Of course. You also have less risk of getting a sunburn if you wear a sweater to the beach, but you’re probably not going to enjoy yourself very much. I’m not telling you not to use a dental dam if you want to. I’m just saying that there seems to be a general consensus among both the swinging and vanilla population that they are not worth it. The same seems to be true of blow jobs with condoms.

Basically, just make smart choices and informed decisions when it comes to your sexual activities. Don’t be afraid to ask people when they were last tested. If they get offended by that question, then you might think twice about playing with them.

Since most STDs require an open wound to be spread, I know many swingers (including myself) who will not floss their teeth or shave their privates within 12 hours before engaging in any sexual activities with others in order to minimize the risk of any microscopic cuts inside their mouths or near their genitals. That’s a smart practice.

-CoupleDoingIt

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