Feb
21

Swinging and Penis Size?

  Dear CoupleDoingIt, I’m a man of average penis size… At least that’s what I used to think, before my wife and I entered the swinging lifestyle! Now I feel like I’m on the smaller side of the bell curve. You may think I’m writing because I feel ashamed or insecure about my “average” size,… Continue reading »

Jan
05

The “No Kissing” Rule

  Dear CoupleDoingIt,    I would love to know what your opinion is on the “no kissing” rule for some couples in the lifestyle. Do you think it is a ridiculous control and insecurity issue? My hubby and I have the no kissing rule because we feel that it’s something we can keep personal between… Continue reading »

Dec
21

Swingle and Dating

  Dear CoupleDoingIt,   I am a single gal in the lifestyle and it is a huge part of my life. My social life revolves around the scene and I love my swinger friends. I am starting to date again after a several month hiatus following a break-up. When and how do I bring up… Continue reading »

Dec
18

STD Fears in the Swinging Lifestyle

  Dear CoupleDoingIt,   We are a new to the swinging lifestyle and are just really starting to look into it deeply. We love the look of your website and the articles have been really helpful in making us not only knowledgeable about the lifestyle but comfortable with it. However, in everything that we have… Continue reading »

Dec
16

Swinging Speed Limits

  Dear CoupleDoingIt,   Even though we have been with a few couples we still consider ourselves ‘newbies’. Our problem is that we would like to develop a bit more of a friendship with people before getting too physical.  We have made that clear on our profiles as well as when we meet people at… Continue reading »

Dec
15

Before You Begin Swinging…

Dear CoupleDoingit,   For a couple just about start in the Lifestyle, what tips would you give? What discussions need to be had, questions raised? In short, how do you know if you are ready or not   Sincerely,
 Brand New to This       Dear Brand New,   Welcome!!!! First of all, my… Continue reading »

Nov
30

Snatch Semen Snacking

Dear CoupleDoingIt, Recently my wife of 11 years revealed to me that she is EXTREMELY turned on by the thought of me eating her pussy after I or another male cum in her.  I was absolutely shocked by what she said, as she has been pretty vanilla for as long as we have been together… Continue reading »

Nov
05

Lifestyle Rights Organization?

  Dear CoupleDoingIt,   Recently there was an unfair news "expose" on a club we frequent in our city. Both of us felt that the way the lifestyle was portrayed was downright discriminatory.    We would love to help in any way we can to help make our chosen way of life more mainstream, acceptable… Continue reading »