Dear CoupleDoingIt, I’m a man of average penis size… At least that’s what I used to think, before my wife and I entered the swinging lifestyle! Now I feel like I’m on the smaller side of the bell curve. You may think I’m writing because I feel ashamed or insecure about my “average” size,… Continue reading »
Feb
21
Jan
05
The “No Kissing” Rule
Dear CoupleDoingIt, I would love to know what your opinion is on the “no kissing” rule for some couples in the lifestyle. Do you think it is a ridiculous control and insecurity issue? My hubby and I have the no kissing rule because we feel that it’s something we can keep personal between… Continue reading »
Dec
21
Swingle and Dating
Dear CoupleDoingIt, I am a single gal in the lifestyle and it is a huge part of my life. My social life revolves around the scene and I love my swinger friends. I am starting to date again after a several month hiatus following a break-up. When and how do I bring up… Continue reading »
Dec
18
STD Fears in the Swinging Lifestyle
Dear CoupleDoingIt, We are a new to the swinging lifestyle and are just really starting to look into it deeply. We love the look of your website and the articles have been really helpful in making us not only knowledgeable about the lifestyle but comfortable with it. However, in everything that we have… Continue reading »
Dec
16
Swinging Speed Limits
Dear CoupleDoingIt, Even though we have been with a few couples we still consider ourselves ‘newbies’. Our problem is that we would like to develop a bit more of a friendship with people before getting too physical. We have made that clear on our profiles as well as when we meet people at… Continue reading »
Dec
15
Before You Begin Swinging…
Dear CoupleDoingit, For a couple just about start in the Lifestyle, what tips would you give? What discussions need to be had, questions raised? In short, how do you know if you are ready or not Sincerely, Brand New to This Dear Brand New, Welcome!!!! First of all, my… Continue reading »
Nov
30
Snatch Semen Snacking
Dear CoupleDoingIt, Recently my wife of 11 years revealed to me that she is EXTREMELY turned on by the thought of me eating her pussy after I or another male cum in her. I was absolutely shocked by what she said, as she has been pretty vanilla for as long as we have been together… Continue reading »
Nov
05
Lifestyle Rights Organization?
Dear CoupleDoingIt, Recently there was an unfair news "expose" on a club we frequent in our city. Both of us felt that the way the lifestyle was portrayed was downright discriminatory. We would love to help in any way we can to help make our chosen way of life more mainstream, acceptable… Continue reading »


